Wedding
Hello.
Firstly I want to write about what I had today.
I’ve been to one wedding ceremony. A very traditional typical malay wedding.
I’ve been there sharp at 1.30pm. I thought that would be the best time because usually at that time the bride and the groom will have their lunch (makan beradap) or something like that.
But today, I’ve missed that occasion. They had their lunch soon after the couple arrived. Probably at 1.00pm. So, I missed it.
But, I’m still lucky because they have bersanding occasion, during I having my lunch. And as a typical Malay wedding they always had one tent for the wedding MC which we always called it DJ. He will talk whatever that relate to the wedding and will announce what ever is happening at that time.
For today, the MC was talking about the everything about the couple. Who is the bride, the groom, where’s the bride came from (I attended the groom’s side), how they met, how’s the thing develop and so on.
As I enjoy to listen it, I’ve been thinking, how would it be if that my wedding day. Hehehehe. Would I tell everything where, when I’ve start my relationship…especially if I’m ended with abg. I won’t dare to tell people about it. Plus it would make several people pengsan and I might be make many people upset as well. So, that will not happen in my wedding.
Secondly, the bersanding session. Emmmm. It might not be happen as well. I’ve been teasing abg for many times, especially when I ame back from the wedding ceremony. I told him, I want all the full set of bersanding session. And he always laughed for that. And as he’s said, that would not suitable for a man at his age. Anyway, I was just joking. I don’t want for myself as well for that.
I would only wish that I can have a very simple wedding ceremony. With all the relatives and friends around to share the moments and pray for the best luck for us. I do not need all the grand preparations. Especially with the ribbons, flowers, small fountains with nice garden and what so ever that makes the wedding looked so lavish and grand. Even I don’t want the main table for the pengantin.
As we always see in every wedding ceremony we go, there must be a main table at least for 20 people. For me having meal with all the guests will make it better. No special treat for this people or that people and everyone will treat equal. Right?
I remember one of our cousin’s wedding 10 years ago, when there are too many VIPs and VVIPs had been invited. It was made everyone busy especially just for preparing for the 10 to 15 these people. The table, the setting, the gift and everything would be special for them. But now with help from the professional wedding planner everything will be smooth and easy. The host is just to make sure that they have enough money for that. But paying 10k extra just for that is ridiculous. Anyway, not for people that money is not the matter.
Anyway, for me, every time that came back from any wedding ceremony will make me bersemangat to get marry. Especially when most of the weddings I attended, the couples are really younger than me. That made me felt so old…..hehehehe. I wanna get marry soon.
Abg….how?
Firstly I want to write about what I had today.
I’ve been to one wedding ceremony. A very traditional typical malay wedding.
I’ve been there sharp at 1.30pm. I thought that would be the best time because usually at that time the bride and the groom will have their lunch (makan beradap) or something like that.
But today, I’ve missed that occasion. They had their lunch soon after the couple arrived. Probably at 1.00pm. So, I missed it.
But, I’m still lucky because they have bersanding occasion, during I having my lunch. And as a typical Malay wedding they always had one tent for the wedding MC which we always called it DJ. He will talk whatever that relate to the wedding and will announce what ever is happening at that time.
For today, the MC was talking about the everything about the couple. Who is the bride, the groom, where’s the bride came from (I attended the groom’s side), how they met, how’s the thing develop and so on.
As I enjoy to listen it, I’ve been thinking, how would it be if that my wedding day. Hehehehe. Would I tell everything where, when I’ve start my relationship…especially if I’m ended with abg. I won’t dare to tell people about it. Plus it would make several people pengsan and I might be make many people upset as well. So, that will not happen in my wedding.
Secondly, the bersanding session. Emmmm. It might not be happen as well. I’ve been teasing abg for many times, especially when I ame back from the wedding ceremony. I told him, I want all the full set of bersanding session. And he always laughed for that. And as he’s said, that would not suitable for a man at his age. Anyway, I was just joking. I don’t want for myself as well for that.
I would only wish that I can have a very simple wedding ceremony. With all the relatives and friends around to share the moments and pray for the best luck for us. I do not need all the grand preparations. Especially with the ribbons, flowers, small fountains with nice garden and what so ever that makes the wedding looked so lavish and grand. Even I don’t want the main table for the pengantin.
As we always see in every wedding ceremony we go, there must be a main table at least for 20 people. For me having meal with all the guests will make it better. No special treat for this people or that people and everyone will treat equal. Right?
I remember one of our cousin’s wedding 10 years ago, when there are too many VIPs and VVIPs had been invited. It was made everyone busy especially just for preparing for the 10 to 15 these people. The table, the setting, the gift and everything would be special for them. But now with help from the professional wedding planner everything will be smooth and easy. The host is just to make sure that they have enough money for that. But paying 10k extra just for that is ridiculous. Anyway, not for people that money is not the matter.
Anyway, for me, every time that came back from any wedding ceremony will make me bersemangat to get marry. Especially when most of the weddings I attended, the couples are really younger than me. That made me felt so old…..hehehehe. I wanna get marry soon.
Abg….how?
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